I can't count the number of times a customer has reached out to me and said, "I love this rug, I am obsessed with it and it would be perfect for my space BUT, I need to convince my significant other."

It makes me chuckle every time, because I have been there myself. And while I usually go with the, "ask for forgiveness, not approval" route, I don't want to be causing any familial disputes.

So here are my best pointers for convincing your significant other that vintage is worth the investment (or in their minds, the 'sticker shock'). 

 

 

1. Help Them See The Value

If you are here, you probably already know this; vintage rugs are storied pieces that hold such beautiful history. And not only are they true art, they are a sustainable option that over time will continue to hold their value. Plus they are incredibly durable. 

2. Prime Them

Before you fall in love with the perfect rug, start having a conversation with them about your goals for your home and why this particular item is important to you. Then, when you find the perfect rug, it won't be such a rush decision for your partner and they will find the conversation a little bit easier. And you won't lose out on your one of a kind dream rug. 

 

 

3. Find Where You are Willing to Compromise

Decorating a home can be a big expense. Of course, I always believe it is worth it because our homes are our sanctuaries but maybe if you are eyeing a couch and rug, shop second hand for the couch and splurge on the rug. Life and marriage is all about balance and compromise so just find where you are willing to bend a little and communicate that to them. 

4. Start a Decor Fund or Pay Through Installments

If you know vintage is the way you want to go, then start saving now. Talk with your partner about how much you can take out each month to put into a little honey pot. Or pay through installments. Myself (and a lot of other rug vendors) offer payment plans to help make the stick shock a little more bare-able.

Hopefully this helps a smidge when having those difficult conversations.